
"Different roles. Shared care. Room for the whole story."
CHOSEN • For mothers and parents
The 6 Principles of CHOSEN
Honouring birth mothers, adoptive mothers, and the families who walk beside them.
C
Choose compassion
Approach yourself, the child, and the other mother with deep gentleness.
H
Honour the whole story
Do not erase hard chapters or edit out the parts that feel uncomfortable.
O
Offer what you can
Give steady presence, honesty, and support within healthy boundaries.
S
Surrender what you cannot control
Release outcomes, fear, and rivalry to divine grace.
E
Embrace belonging
Anchor the child in love that does not demand divided loyalty.
N
Nurture the life entrusted to you
Celebrate who the child is becoming with open-hearted faith.
