A Book by Sister Y — "Two Mothers, One Miracle" • Honouring the mothers. Centring the adoptee.
CHOSEN Framework Guide Sheet by Sister Y

"Different roles. Shared care. Room for the whole story."

CHOSEN • For mothers and parents

The 6 Principles of CHOSEN

Honouring birth mothers, adoptive mothers, and the families who walk beside them.

C

Choose compassion

Approach yourself, the child, and the other mother with deep gentleness.

H

Honour the whole story

Do not erase hard chapters or edit out the parts that feel uncomfortable.

O

Offer what you can

Give steady presence, honesty, and support within healthy boundaries.

S

Surrender what you cannot control

Release outcomes, fear, and rivalry to divine grace.

E

Embrace belonging

Anchor the child in love that does not demand divided loyalty.

N

Nurture the life entrusted to you

Celebrate who the child is becoming with open-hearted faith.